Weekend Coffee Share 1/23: The New Year Edition

Happy New Year 2023 everyone! This is my first Weekend Coffee Share in a long time. My last one was on May 8th, 2021 – The Rituals for Resilience Edition.

Business owner

The last two years were some of the busiest and most challenging yet. It was a time for firsts, dream realization, and grabbing opportunities with both hands when they arose – I became a business owner by acquiring the shareholding of the company I’ve worked for since 2015.

2022 was a year of recreating the company and rebuilding the team after the toll Covid took on everyone. Some people left and moved on to other things, and others remained and worked with me to rebuild a stronger more resilient business. Strengthening this resilience continues this year. I feel excited.

In-person classes

2022 also marked the year that I resumed in-person classes and travel, international and local. I still do virtual classes and the scope of these is wonderful – ‘virtual’ gave me new markets across the globe, and teaching new groups of people from different cultural backgrounds has been interesting, as I  learned to adapt to each one.

Travel resumed

I traveled to Cape Town 6 times, Durban 2 times, Berlin once and Lisbon once. Exciting stuff. I had to relearn my old hacks for travel – things like packing efficiently, the airport process, juggling weight, and heavy bags, when not to take a carry-on bag on the plane (usually within Europe), and how to take a carry-on bag that won’t be flagged to be removed at boarding, and so on and so forth.

A lonely year

It was also a lonely year and by this, I mean that, when I was a part of a team of peers, we had each other to talk to, commiserate on difficult client situations, and together collaborate to create new educational and coaching content and just generally support each other. I don’t have this now, and my peers are other business owners that I need to find. People who know sleepless nights, waking up in a cold sweat worried about the business, paying salaries, and looking for new ways of bringing in new business.

Vacation!

In spite of all of this, I’ve taken time to be on vacation – since mid-December – enjoying the hot weather, the pool and the rain storms. The cats are happy because they have both of their humans at home, with Chè on vacation as well. Christmas was the usual family affair. New Year celebrations were a bit subdued as most of the family opted to celebrate in their own homes.

Christmas 2023

This year though the cousins from Portugal are planning on spending Christmas in Cape Town, so that will be different in all aspects; and I’m looking forward to it.

Reading

I read Hanya Yanagihara’s A Little Life and it evoked so many emotions. I was heartbroken and devastated and happy all at once. It was a treat to read such beautiful writing, a deep and moving story that I still can’t get out of my mind such that I’m re-reading some portions.

That is it for this week’s coffee share. It was good catching up with you.

Until next time,

Regina


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Flashing Back In Time To January 6th 2021

Fandango from This, That, and The Other made the great suggestion to post something that I’ve previously posted on this day (the 6th) of any month in the past year.  Since the last time I posted on the 6th of a month was in January 2021 I’ve gone back more than a year; the post is about the previous year, so I’m flashing back in time a few years. Enjoy it, below.


Originally posted on January 6th, 2021. It was part of a 2020 review series. (Sans photos).

2020: LOCKDOWN LIFE AUGUST IN REVIEW

This is part of my year in review. Writing one post will make it too long, so I’m breaking each month into separate posts. This is the latest installment of lockdown life.

I can finally feel that Spring is coming! While having late afternoon tea on the patio with Chè – after many hours in front of a camera – we saw the weavers build their nests.

I visited my sister, the first time I got out to visit family since February. Oh, what a wonderful time we had, catching up and going for walks in the beautiful trails around the house.

I started creating mandalas on Procreate; this is one of the most relaxing activities I’ve engaged in this year.

I planted chard, lettuce, blueberries, and jasmine for Spring.

agile42 did a short coach profile on me for social media.

A few other things happened:

  • One of my nephews (he’s a rocket scientist, literally) got his dream job in Germany.
  • I’m on the search for the perfect desk and chair. I can’t make up my mind about what I want.
  • Chè and I are in agreement that cats are the centre of our universe.
  • I did an AromaVeda course.
  • I spent many months in Birkenstocks and socks. This is significant because I always said that I would NEVER do that! But I’ve changed my mind – this is the most comfortable way of wearing shoes around the house. My face may be fully made up and I may be wearing work clothes, but my feet are comfortably encased in sandals and socks.
  • I’m trying to get an orchid to grow in my office; the leaves keep falling off so I have no more than two leaves growing at any one time, and there is no sign of the orchid stem thingy.

Let me end off by saying that this has been the most time I’ve spent ­– uninterrupted – at home. I’m loving it – I actually want to work from home all the time from now on. I’m also seeing my home space with new eyes and now I have the time to improve the things I never had the time for, like creating a coffee station.

August was a lot more exciting than July.